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Date: Fri, 28 Sep 2007 13:44:38 -0400
From: "BEppley"
To: XXXXX@yahoo.com>
CC: "ABS"

By this time you are well aware of what has transpired. Due to my lack of character and poor judgment, I have done a great disservice to Andrea, both personally and professionally. It has been entirely inappropriate (and it goes way beyond that) to cross the line between physician and patient as well as have any extracurricular activity in the midst of an ongoing relationship with Andrea, my closest friend and business partner.

 As the situation has become fully unfolded, this has resulted in great pain for Andrea, whom in no way deserves the repercussions of my improper actions. While you have been a patient of my practice and Ology's, Andrea is the cornerstone of this practice and deserves better than I have done to date. For this reason, I must request that Ology/my practice separate itself from you as a patient. Great pain and suffering has resulted from my behavior and any future crossing of the two, regardless of what amends may have been done, will only open up these wounds. As a result, I will be unable to provide care for your daughter and can recommend Dr. Sadove at the Meridian center, a renowed pediatric plastic surgeon.
 
I believe this is best for all involved.

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** How easily Dr. Eppley admits his professional misconduct when it serves his own purpose, which, of course, this does.  But what about the woman on the receiving end of his transgression, and I am not referring to his "best friend and business partner" Andres Bradley-Stutz.   Dr. Eppley seems to have lost sight of the fact that the "great pain and suffering" resulting from his "behavior" was borne by the female patient victimized by his selfish and deplorable breach of professional decency. 

Dr. Eppley's remorse is entirely self serving.  His expressions of regret for his "improper actions" are entirely for his "partner" Andrea, yet there is not a single word of apology to his VICTIM!  His attitude in this regard is reprehensible.  This is the attitude of one who thinks nothing of using people as if they are objects... He is totally incapable of relating to the pain he inflicts on others who do not serve his own agenda.  Imagine being on the the receiving end of this message... Dr. Eppley's only regret is having been caught in his predatory game.  Once caught, his only concern is self preservation through further demeaning his by placating the ruffled feathers of his "partner", Andrea, who "deserves better".   Yet he proves here that he does not feel the real victim of his heinous actions even deserves an apology? 

 XXXX wrote:
 I know of two others..he attacked me in the room from out of the blue, no flirting at all, when I was half naked and in terrible pain after he did a tuck on me..the next time he molested me..he completely admits to all of it..that's the weired part.Cocaine is the only thing that explains it...now I did not go after him in 05 and started seeing him..but every time we met it was at his  offices and there are third party witness that can document it for over two  years..the receptionist at North and the main security guard at North..his  girlfriend that he lives with and is co-owner of Ology, who I did not know about  until I dated him for nine months, found out..she is a piece of work. This is her and she is Andrea. We mainly met at his three offices. He got fired from IU  I almost positive for screwing around. He did not do one free plastic surgery thing for me..**** who was also his the patient he first left his wife for  calls him the devil..might be true..she would testify no problem..she hates him for what he did to me..she left him because he is really weird..I think I have a case..He does to or he would not be begging me to stop..His girlfriend already kicked him out. he admits crossing the line.I can still report him..I don't know if its health or  obsessing..I bet another plastic surgeon would touch me right?

TTT wrote:
Yes, of course another plastic surgeon will touch you and be happy to take your money. Don't you know what a cut throat business that has turned into? Besides, ethical doctors do not LIKE his kind.. it makes them all look bad. I think Barry likes to think of himself as some "Nip and Tuck" character.. playing out a movie in real life. He is a womanizer.

XXXX wrote:
He does remind me of that Nip Tuck guy..By the way he can't stand being short...O by the way if you email Barry don't cc me because he would see my name..whoops I don't usually do this but I went to a physic for relief. and she was good she knew everything about me and him and the relationship..she said that he will face criminal charges and possible jail time because someone will come forward..she said his business will close down and he will move out of state..I don't think he really cares about his daughter at all..it was interesting..because she also pointed out the good he did for me..now I know you don't want to hear it but when he hit on me I had been the most depressed girl in the world over the break up of my marriage and over the past two years he has build me up allot..I told you I control all things around me and have date offers all the time because of my confidence..still hate him..want to be over it...I do think he will get it..she said I have to walk away and shut the door..not so easy..she said he had never been faithful to anyone ever and never will be because his mother molested or controlled him..I know his dad follows your stuff all the time..I know he hates his sister and never talk to her..never goes home ever..and I have never heard him talk about his mother once...I kinda thought maybe she was dead so I did not ask..write me back when you get a chance..

http://www.zielkelaw.com/profile/articles-publications/secrets-in-the-exam-room.asp

http://www.advocateweb.org/hope/litigation/liability.asp#intro

one more thing and I am late for work..that article describes me to a T..I have isolated myself from everyone..I blame myself..why would continue..that transference thing from Froad is me to a T...I shed my first half a tear in all this..I have not cried one time.in two years...I am so cold and hurt all the time..this could be my path to recovery.
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Andrea broke up this big attorney's marriage downtown..then stopped and left him for some child molesting photographer...then she went to work for Chernoff a big plastic surgeon in Indy cost him his marriage by seducing him..then sued him for sexual harassment and won and that's how she stared Ology with Barry..I told him you are so into this girl who sued and won for sexual harassment..back at you baby!

he admits crossing the line..the few attorney have talked to said because I kept seeing him i would loose?

 problem is in a couple of lovers quarrels I deleted most of our emails..never  thought I would be suing him..
Remember allot of what Barry and I did was joke and talk about sex..I don't usually say things like that..

----------- Original message ----------------------
 From: Barry Eppley
 To: XXX
 Date: Thu, 27 Sep 2007 17:29:38 -0400
 
we  ( I) have a big problem.....we have been found
 out!.....no more e-mailing to this address....I'll fill you in later

Are you considering surgery with Dr. Barry Eppley?  If so, you may want to know a bit more about Dr. Eppley's  past unprofessional conduct with female patients. 

The Truth Teller does not make this statement lightly.  You will find posted to these pages e-mail written by Dr. Eppley to a vulnerable female patient he seduced and carried on an "intimate relationship" with for nearly two years... all while living with another woman. 

The Truth Teller believes this is important information that every female patient should be aware of before deciding to undergo surgery with Dr. Eppley.  I was first contacted by Dr. Eppley's victim of sexual predation last year.  My posts appear in Italic,  with Dr. Eppley's female patient, XXX , in Ariel , and  Dr. Eppley's messages appear in Ariel Bold.

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The Truth Teller wrote:

I just found the messages you posted on Losing Face and am a bit confused. Didn't you write the response to the complaint I posted about Eppley on TheSqueakyWheel.com? That message seemed to accuse me of singularly "defaming"  Dr. Eppley. I really HAVE been in contact with some of his less fortunate patients. Strictly speaking from what he did to me, this man is worse than a butcher. What he did to me (IF it was even HE who performed my surgery) was the work of one demented.

 know he has pending malpractice cases against him because the Indiana  Medical  Licensing Board verified that was the reason he had to appear before the Board  before they would renew his license. I personally believe he possibly abuses stimulant type drugs. My ex husband was a cocaine abuser. I  never knew until he started to physically abuse me. Thinking  back on Eppley's charismatic charm, his behavior was similar to that of my ex  before his cocaine habit consumed our marriage.

If what you say about Eppley having other issues is true, I certainly hope whatever repercussions he suffers as a result are as devastating for him as the harm he  inflicted on myself and others whose health and lives have been irreparably destroyed by his reprehensible actions. .
Regards,
TTT